“This is incredible! It’s like a Black girl’s dream.”
When I told my best friend that The Red Pump Project was featured in the March issue of ESSENCE Magazine, those were the words that she shared. Well, that was after a lot of “OMGs,” “I’m so proud,” and “I’m not going to cry.” I totally knew what she meant though. Essence is such an incredible magazine for Black women and to be included for my passion project is incredibly empowering.
When Luvvie and I first started Red Pump in 2009, we just wanted to make a difference and BOOM. Here we are. It hasn’t been an easy road, but it’s been a worthwhile one. I am over the moon about this article and have not stopped swooning over the red heels/red ribbon image. Dear Essence fashion team, y’all did that. So fabulous!
Next Tuesday, on National Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, Red Pump will head to New York City for our first event in the Big Apple. In partnership with Essence, we will host Red Power Conversations, a free evening of powerful dialogue about the issues that affect HIV & Black women.
Ah, #WCW (Woman Crush Wednesday). It’s an Instagram holiday that I’ve never really celebrated, but I think that has something to do with the fact that I’ve never been anyone’s WCW. However, I can appreciate the spirit of the idea, especially when smart and beautiful women are being featured. Given that March is National Women’s History Month, I decided that I would show some love to four role models this month.
You should know that these women will not just be beautiful but also brilliant and have a big heart (duh). They come from different walks of life but each currently is inspiring me to dream bigger, work harder, and give more. Let me introduce the first woman of the month.
I first learned about across Nancy Mahon several months ago while researching the team behind the MAC AIDS Fund. Nancy is a Senior Vice President at The Estee Lauder Companies and the Global Director of the Fund (#GirlBoss). If you check out her bio, you will learn about all of her accomplishments which include graduating from Yale and NYU Law, publishing numerous articles, and leading God’s Love We Deliver before joining MAC. Impressive? Absolutely. However, it’s her work now that caught my attention. Through sales from the MAC Viva Glam product line, the company is able to raise money for the MAC AIDS Fund. Currently, the company gives away $35 million across the world and Nancy is at the helm of this incredible work.
She inspires my nonprofit side as well as my business side. I don’t believe that corporate success and doing good has to be mutual. In fact, I’ve spent the past 21 months in a position that allows me to effectively do both. There are a lot of lessons to be learned by MAC. I’m glad that they give us the blueprint for how to do both, and I love Nancy at the helm.
If you’re not familiar with the work of the MAC AIDS Fund, please check out the video below. She is awesome and you will know so much more after watching.
UPDATE: My husband actually made me his #WCW today. I’m not sure if he read the opening paragraph of my blog this AM or was just feeling rather affectionate, but I’ll take it! *insert googly eyes*
One in 32 Black women will be diagnosed in her lifetime.
That is a statistic that you hear once and have a hard time letting go of. Saturday was National Black HIV/Awareness Day (NBHAAD) and it inspired lots of conversations about the impact of HIV on the Black community and also discuss how we move forward in the fight against a disease that has impacted our community in such a devastating way.
A few years ago, the Kaiser Family Foundation found that nearly three in five Black people know someone living with HIV or who has passed away from AIDS. This is certainly my experience. Before starting The Red Pump Project, I knew someone living with HIV and I have met many others over the past six years – especially women of all ages.
On Saturday night at fundraiser dinner hosted by our Red Pump Atlanta team, spoken word artist Keisha Pooler performed an incredible piece focused on being our sister’s keeper. In the spirit of her performance and NBHAAD, here are three ways to help all of us fight this epidemic while supporting the women who we love.
1. Leave the judgment at the door. I realize that this is easier said than done, but it is incredibly important. When we have open and honest dialogue about sexual health and behaviors, we create an environment that allows the women in our lives to ask questions and have deeper conversations about this important topic.
2. Get the facts about HIV – and share with your loved ones. There is so much wrong information floating around about HIV and other STIs. Having the right facts is a big step in the right direction. Start here for some facts about HIV and women.
3. Build up your sister’s self-esteem. Women are at higher risk for emotional and physical abuse and this can put many of us in situations that increase our risk of contracting HIV. Surround yourself with positive networks and look for opportunities to provide this support to other women in your community – especially to girls and young women.
If it were up to me, there would never be another MAC Viva Glam spokesperson beside Rihanna. I have a thing for Rih that blew up once it was announced that she was joining this legendary campaign. However, life must go on, right?
It was recently announced that Miley Cyrus is taking over the throne as the newest ambassador for this charitable line of lipsticks. To be honest, I’m not that big on Miley but I appreciate anyone who lends their brand and support to help raise dollars for the MAC AIDS Fund. Since 1994, the company has raised upwards of $300 million dollars to support those living with HIV/AIDS – exclusively through the sale of these lipsticks. It’s incredible.
Now, about the newest product… It is a bright pink but not as much of a strange pink as Nicki Minaj’s Viva Glam lipstick.
I stopped by my local MAC counter to check out the colors on brown skin, and it wasn’t that bad!
However, I already have Girl About Town and think that’s all the bright pink that I need for now. So, I left the tube at the counter, but picked up a tube of Viva Glam III so that my trip was not in vain.
Both the party-perfect lipstick and lip glass are in stores and online now. To learn more about the amazing work and organizations supported by the MAC AIDS Fund, check out their website. Trust me… You will be impressed.
Over the past two months, I’ve had the pleasure to travel to Miami twice for work. Escaping the Chicago winter for sun and sand is always a good idea however, my trips to Miami provided me with much more than bronzed skin. For over a year, I have been working on putting together a plan for my company to celebrate and connect with those over the age of 50 who are living with HIV. Why this age group? Well, half of people living with HIV will be over the age of 50 in 2015.
My trips to Miami were essentially the culmination of all of that work. In December, I met the lovely ladies behind the incredible Graying of AIDS oral histories project. I joined them as they spent two days photographing and interviewing Miami residents who made the decision to join our campaign and tell their stories. When I returned last weekend, I had a chance to view the exhibit that our entire team worked to bring to life. Against the most gorgeous blue sky, we unveiled the beautiful and powerful Well Beyond HIV photo installation on a beautiful terrace facing the ocean.
For the participants, it was an incredible day. A day filled with triumph, celebration, and reflection for all those who have been living with HIV/AIDS for many years. For me, the day served as a reminder of my purpose and of what can happen when you follow your instinct.
I did a lot of reflection during both trips. I thought about how I could continue to influence my company, even as we undergo a significant transformation. I thought about how I strengthen my legacy with The Red Pump Project and our work around women and girls HIV/AIDS awareness. Most importantly, I just thought about balance. There is so much that I want to accomplish in this life, but I’m only one person. Balance is something that I struggle with (because Libra), so I always feel like my life needs to be recalibrated.
During last weekend’s trip, it was important for me to not only be focused on work, but to also take some time to smell the roses (or taste the mojito). What good is it to be the best and the brightest if you’re stressed and burned out? That’s not how I want my life to play out. I want my efforts to be significant, meaningful, and effective. I don’t need to be the star but I do plan to make big things happen.
Subscription services are apparently the cat’s meow. From shoes to clothing and even dinner ingredients, you can pretty much get anything delivered on your doorstep every month. One of the first companies that I heard of doing this was Birchbox, a beauty-focused box. While intrigued, I never pulled the trigger.
Fast forward to last week.
While scrolling through my Instagram feed, I see that (RED) and Birchbox have teamed up for a limited edition December box in recognition of World AIDS Day. I don’t know if it was the packaging or the fact that I would be doing good, but I have been debating whether or not to sign up for Birchbox now. In full disclosure, I am not a product junkie and my monthly spoils might just end up in my linen closet.
If I subscribe by 11/30, then I can still receive this limited edition box and begin my own little beauty journey. That gives me less than two weeks to decide. So, I would love your opinion. Do you have a Birchbox subscription? Do you love it? Do you think that it is worth it?
Last week, I had the best week EVER. I hopped over to the West Coast for a work meeting with the Greater Than AIDS team, then went straight to Miami for the ColorComm Conference (recap here), returned to Chicago to participate in the 85th Annual Bud Billiken Parade with the Black McDonald’s Operators Association, AND *insert breath* watched the legendary Chaka Khan take the stage in support of my nonprofit organization, The Red Pump Project.
Is your head spinning yet? Mine certainly was by Saturday night. However, it was totally worth it. I mean, Chaka Khan?! She is every bit as fierce and fabulous as you would imagine her to be. Before the show, Luvvie and I had a chance to meet her backstage and thank her for agreeing to support our organization in this significant way. A few snaps are below.
Welcome to the Chicago Theatre!
Red Pump posing with Chaka Khan and the Music is My 1st Love team
Luvvie and I with the woman of the hour.
It was a night that I will definitely remember for many reasons. My favorite memory of the night? Singing “Sweet Thing” with my husband standing next to me. It doesn’t get any mushier than that, right? Don’t laugh.
We are so grateful to the Music is My 1st Love team for selecting us as recipients of their first benefit concert. They are doing incredible things and I’m looking forward to supporting their future shows.
To Ms. Chaka Khan, there are no words! From one Chicago gal to another, you are a powerhouse. Thank you for rocking the red pump with us.
On Wednesday night, I went to go see the Soweto Gospel Choir with one of my favorite gals, DeeDee (The Sassy Peach). I was first introduced to the choir a year ago and since then, I’ve been in awe of their voices, their spirits, and (of course) their awesome performances. As they weaved their way through African spirituals, Black spirituals, and contemporary songs in Symphony Hall, I just felt happy. I felt blessed to be connected to such a beautiful culture.
The performance was beautiful. Even though I didn’t know the words to 90% of the songs, it didn’t matter at all. Everyone in the hall was captivated by each note and each word. It reminded me that music is a true common denominator. It has the power to connect people from different walks of life in an authentic way. A certain commercial previously ruined Sarah McLaughlin’s “Arms of an Angel,” but the choir restored my love of this song. The video is below is them singing the song at a different performance. SO GOOD.
The Soweto Gospel Choir is an amazing group both on and off the stage. While browsing the program booklet, I learned that they launched Nkosi’s Haven Vukani, a foundation to support HIV/AIDS orphans in South Africa. As they travel the world with their performances, it is clear that they not only carry a connection to their home country, but also a responsibility to it. There were several tributes to Nelson Mandela, summed up with a touching rendition of South Africa’s national anthem.
As we ended the night clapping and singing “Amen,” it was the perfect end to a great show. I definitely filed it away in my memory bank. I wish them much success on the rest of their North American tour and hope to catch another show in the future!